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[推荐]观人有四招

2013-02-05 23:15:39| 分类：网络转载 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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古人有“四观”来看人是否可交：“观人于临财，观人于临难，观人于忽略，观人于酒后。”

这深入人性的四个方面：爱财是否取之有道，临难是否从容镇定，办事是否漫不经心，酒后是否放任自流。

有分寸感就不贪，有意志力就不怕，有责任心就不懒，有自控性就不乱。这对于我们自我修养，同样也适用。

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